How to Keep Screen Time In Check
Parents may feel overwhelmed or intimidated by the thought of it. As a speech-language pathologist and mother of two young children, we’ve recently implemented simple and effective strategies for reducing screen time.
Here’s what works for us (even in winter):
1. Create a “chore checklist.”
Our list stays on our fridge and my son moves a magnet up for each “job” he completes. Some tasks are easy, like “eat breakfast” and “play and read.” Others require more effort: “make your bed.”
When he asks to watch a show, I show him what jobs need to be completed before he’s allowed. This has eliminated a lot of whining. For some children, a simple “first / then” visual may be more appropriate.
Stick with it and your child will quickly understand the process.
2. Use Choices
Be prepared to shut the device off as soon as the allotted time is over and offer a new choice, “now you can play or read books.”
3. Don’t forget YOUR value
4. Keep Things Fresh.
Put together a craft drawer (it can simply be markers, paper, tape, and stickers). When you are desperate, make something messy.
Change your scenery. A simple trip to to the grocery store might be enough.
5. Model decreased screen time.
Spend time with your children without your phone in your hand.
6. Encourage independent play.
If you are looking to make adjustments in how and when your children get screen time, stay consistent to establish new routines and your child will quickly learn the expectations. Little changes now can lead to big improvements later in your child’s life.
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